Chapter 356: Chapter Questions About Marriage
Chapter 356: Chapter Questions About Marriage
"As you said before, sincerity is always the best way to win."
Mei Xiuhai suddenly asked, "Have you ever thought about letting Guanglei get married?"
Gu Mingyue was stunned when she heard this. She must have thought about this question.
In their countryside, people get married and have children at the age of sixteen. Guanglei's mental state has now recovered to that of seventeen or eighteen years old, so it shouldn't have any impact if he really gets married.
Uncle Gu Guoqiang had discussed this topic with her before.
After all, for the older generation, continuing the family line has always been a top priority.
In the early years, Liu Caixia would often mention Gu Mingyue, but later, seeing that it had little effect, she gradually gave up and never mentioned it again.
Therefore, the only hope left is Guanglei, we can't let this team be left without successors.
Many people in the village have the same idea.
Well, Gu Mingyue is not opposed to Guanglei getting married, nor is she afraid that it will affect her life.
The main reason was that from what everyone said at that time, it seemed that their family was only worthy of marrying someone with a disease. Even if they had no physical defects, they would be the ones who would cancel the engagement and had a reputation of bringing down their husbands.
This made Gu Mingyue very angry.
Guanglei's accident was just caused by premature birth, and it will not be passed on to the next generation. Moreover, he himself does not have any sequelae.
It’s not that Gu Mingyue has to speak for her own child, but she just doesn’t want to compromise.
In her opinion, Guanglei of their family is one in a million and has excellent moral character. She is not bragging about this, it is just the fact.
Marriage is a lifelong event and should never be compromised.
In addition, another point is that Gu Mingyue chose not to get married for personal reasons.
But she never denied that marriage is sacred and not a joke.
She believes that for two strangers to form a family, the prerequisite is that they love each other, which is the core foundation of a stable family.
She hopes Guanglei lives a happy life. If he just finds someone randomly in order to continue his offspring, who can guarantee that the woman will not play tricks on him in the future? She can't block the door of the couple and watch them every day, that would be too perverted.
To put it more seriously, when she was alive, perhaps everyone loved each other. If she were gone, would anyone use their own child's mental problems to ridicule and play tricks on him?
When Gu Mingyue thought of Guanglei being pointed at and called a fool, she wanted to kill him.
It is said that parents love their children and plan for them in the long run. Now she finally understands this feeling.
Even though she is just an aunt, that child is the one she has raised carefully since childhood and is her closest relative.
This also made Gu Mingyue, who was always decisive, timid and hesitant for the first time.
So she said frankly, "I have thought about it. Don't be afraid of you laughing at me. I often imagine all kinds of scenes in my mind, such as the scene of Guanglei being laughed at and bullied. Every time I think of it, I feel very anxious. I think my child is good in every way, but outsiders definitely don't think so. Even people in our village think that a fool should marry a blind, lame or even a widow. Therefore, over the years, I have never taken the initiative to arrange it. I am afraid that if I open this question, all kinds of rotten fish and shrimp will come to my door, and I will be so angry. Besides, Guanglei doesn't have that intention. Normally, if some children mature early, they will understand some love affairs in junior high school. You are a doctor, and I also want to ask by the way, do you think Guanglei's mental problems will affect his emotions?"
Mei Xiuhai explained to her, "No, it's not a congenital defect, or a family inheritance. It's purely an acquired accident. After treatment, all aspects have improved. It should be that most boys mature late and haven't opened their minds yet. You don't have to worry."
Gu Mingyue was relieved and said, "That's good. In this case, I won't be in a hurry and will wait until he knows that he likes it. This way, it is fair to both the man and the woman. I think that only with an emotional foundation can we have a long-lasting relationship."
Mei Xiuhai sighed and said, "It's amazing that you think so carefully, but will you be lonely when the time comes?"
Gu Mingyue said self-deprecatingly, "I thought you would ask me if I was afraid that Guanglei would get married and I would be alone?"
"Who is this gossiper talking nonsense again?"
Gu Mingyue said indifferently, "It's okay, they are just some self-righteous people who are talking nonsense. If they really dared to come in front of me, I would treat them as nothing. It's a pity that none of them have the guts."
Mei Xiuhai comforted him, "Yes, don't bother with them. They are all mean people who hate others for what they have and laugh at others for what they don't have. Their own lives are in turmoil, so they don't want to see others live comfortably."
Gu Mingyue couldn't help laughing at what she thought of. "Let me tell you, I now understand those evil mothers-in-law. For example, the son who I raised with great care turned against the whole family for a girl who was not compatible with him in every way. If Guanglei challenged me for a girl who I thought was incompetent in every way in the future, I would be furious. Haha, I used to be the one who helped others to fight against the evil mother-in-law, but now, I might become the person I least want to be. Isn't it interesting?!"
Mei Xiuhai didn't know whether to laugh or cry. "How can someone be so mean to himself? Not to mention that Guanglei would never do such a thing. Even if he really rebelled one day, I don't know you. If you find someone is not worth helping, you will withdraw immediately and never waste a bit of emotion. You are affectionate but also heartless."
Gu Mingyue pondered, "They say that old people are very smart and can easily see through my character. However, after all these years of companionship, I can't guarantee that I will make an exception for him. Forget it, just let it go. It's useless to think too much. Fortunately, I still have some roots in the village. As long as he lives in the village, even if I'm not here in the future, everyone will help take care of him for the sake of face."
Older people don't like people around them saying unlucky things. Mei Xiuhai is one of them. He said unhappily, "With your body, I have no doubt that you will live a hundred years, or even turn into an old monster. So stop saying unlucky things."
Gu Mingyue laughed secretly, "Okay, I get it. People say you are a child. I think you are really moody now. You can change your face at any time."
Mei Xiuhai glared at her and said, "That's because I was mad at you..."
After finishing her meal at Mei's house, on the way back, Gu Mingyue looked at Guanglei jumping in front of her.
It's like returning to the time when I first came to this world...
At that time, the aunt and niece were digesting their food in the yard, walking one after the other, just like they do now.
After walking for a while, Guanglei would look back to see if she was there. Once he made sure she was still there, he would continue playing by himself, looking at the sky, stepping on his shadow, carefree and very happy.
Many years passed, and this habit has been maintained. Gu Mingyue called out softly, "Little Stone!"
Guanglei turned around and ran over happily, saying in surprise, "Aunt, you haven't called me like this for a long time..."
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