dtnovels Chapter 343 Respect her destiny
Chapter 343 Respect her destiny
Ling Yajun suddenly slammed the table excitedly, "Great! That makes damn sense."
He Cheng choked and coughed hard to signal his wife to be more restrained.
Ling Yajun rolled her eyes at him, but still straightened her face and said to Guanglei and Xingfu, "Well, it was a slip of the tongue. Children, don't learn it randomly."
Then he couldn't help but mutter, "I'll copy down what you said and send it to my friends."
Hearing this, Gu Mingyue asked tentatively, "Do you have a story?"
Ling Yajun did not hide anything and said frankly, "She is a very good friend of mine. Her husband was a playboy when he was young, and they always quarreled. At that time, several of us sisters advised her not to break up. Every time she agreed to be nice, as long as her husband coaxed her, she would come back and tell us that her husband was actually very good to her. After so many years, her life has really become a mess. She is either catching vixens or trying to catch her husband all day. Even so, she still firmly believes that her husband was just seduced and it was all other people's fault. We have advised and scolded her over the years, but she is still the same."
"Oh, love brain!"
"what?"
Gu Mingyue explained to her, "It is a kind of person who can't think of anything else except love. For the love in her mind, she can give up everything, including her family, friends and even herself. In the eyes of a love-brained person, the lover is perfect, even if the other party has shortcomings, they will be ignored or beautified."
Ling Yajun nodded and agreed, "Yes, yes, that's right. So what can you do to wake her up?"
After she finished speaking, she saw Gu Mingyue shaking her head, and she said disappointedly, "Don't you have any tricks even for yourself?"
"No, you misunderstood. What I meant is that you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep. Maybe I am a hard-hearted person. I let others live if they want to, and suffer if they want to. So if you ask me, my answer is no matter what. Have you ever thought that if she can give up herself for a man today, in the future, if she has to choose between you and her husband, which side do you think she will sacrifice?"
Ling Yajun opened her mouth but didn't say the answer. However, she seemed to have given the answer, which made her look a little depressed.
Seeing this, Gu Mingyue still prefers the other person's heroic look.
So he said, "Let me tell you a story, you can use it as a reference. There was a pair of good friends, let's use Xiaohong and Xiaohei as their representatives. Xiaohong always persuaded Xiaohei to break up, and Xiaohei would say he would consider it, and then he would tell her boyfriend how Xiaohong said bad things about him, which made Xiaohei's boyfriend particularly disgusted with Xiaohong. Even so, every time Xiaohei and her boyfriend had a conflict, she would go to Xiaohong's place to stay for a few days, and then Xiaohong would persuade them to break up, her boyfriend would admit his mistake, and Xiaohei would come back, and this cycle would continue endlessly. Finally one day, her boyfriend hit Xiaohei, which made Xiaohei determined to break up. But her boyfriend disagreed and came to her door with a knife in his hand. Seeing that Xiaohei didn't dare to go out, Xiaohong offered to call the police, but was rejected by Xiaohei on the grounds that he didn't want to make a big fuss. Xiaohong didn't realize the seriousness of the matter at that time, so she stepped forward and wanted to persuade the man to leave in person. Guess what happened?"
Everyone present looked at Gu Mingyue...
"When the boyfriend saw Xiao Hong, his old hatred and new grudges made him lose control instantly. He felt that Xiao Hei would never leave him without Xiao Hong's instigation, so he stabbed Xiao Hong several times in anger. At this time, Xiao Hei watched her friend being stabbed outside the door without doing anything. She had the opportunity to call the police or an ambulance quickly, but she not only did not ask for help, but she was even afraid of being implicated. When Xiao Hong used up her last bit of strength to open the door, she actually locked the door from the inside..."
Ling Yajun was furious when she heard this. "You ungrateful ungrateful bastard!"
Mrs. Li was also furious, "They are worse than animals."
Gu Mingyue continued, "Afterwards, when questioned by Xiaohong's mother, Xiaohei said confidently that he didn't mean it, she was just scared. The most terrifying thing is that Xiaohei's boyfriend didn't know Xiaohong's address, and it was Xiaohei who sent a text message to tell the other party. Although feudal superstition is prohibited, I still think Xiaohei is using Xiaohong to ward off disaster. This shows that when you interfere with other people's fate, it means you have to bear the cause and effect of others."
Ling Yajun couldn't help but ask back, "Then why did you help your friend deal with Ning Ning?"
Gu Mingyue said without hesitation, "It's different. In the story, Xiao Hei enjoyed Xiao Hong's help as a matter of course, but he refused to repent. In the case of my friend Lu Xue, Shen Zhiqiang had no principled issues from beginning to end, and I just killed him in advance. But I also told Lu Xue that I would only help her this time. If she can't stand up on her own and always puts her hopes on others, I will definitely not meddle in her affairs again. Helping once is a favor. Similarly, I am willing to help if the other party is worthy. If I don't help, it means I will stop the loss in time and not waste unnecessary feelings for anyone."
Ling Yajun looked at her deeply and said, "You are so insightful at such a young age, it really makes me ashamed. I was a little surprised and a little dissatisfied when I heard the grandfather and grandson talking about Lin Feng not being worthy of you. Now, I am obsessed with it. I'm sorry, my son is really not good enough."
"Mom, what are you talking about?"
"What's the matter? I'm just stating the truth."
He Linfeng wanted to check today's calendar to see if it said that everything was going badly. He sat there without saying anything and still looked at him with disdain. Was it possible that even his breathing was wrong...? !
Gu Mingyue didn't take it seriously and said, "You're too kind. I just like to read some interesting essays and draw my own conclusions based on other people's experiences. Some of them may not be very reasonable, but I have always been upright and only stick to what I think is right."
"I think this is great." Ling Yajun said immediately, "Your story touched me deeply. To be honest, I wanted to take a break in the next two days and then go and persuade my friend. Right now, I prefer to call her first. If she insists on her own opinion, I will consider letting her go completely. After all, we are all adults and we should be responsible for our own choices. I have helped her for so many years, and I think I have done a good job. I don't want to go out in the middle of the night to clean up her mess all the time, and end up with her husband and wife living in harmony while we are separated."
"After all, everyone's standard for evaluating something is based on their own perspective, and I am no exception. Because I don't like that kind of person, I don't want to see others pay for them, so it's inevitable that some personal emotions are mixed in. I hope you don't blame me for being nosy."
Ling Yajun said seriously, "How could that be? Today, if anyone in my family had advised me, I would have thought they were biased. This is what is called being in the know. But you are the one who sees things clearly. Your objectivity makes me sober and makes me understand that I seem to be the one who has been meddling in other people's affairs all these years. It is better to stay out of other people's affairs."
Gu Mingyue concluded, "Let go of the desire to help others and respect their fate."
Ling Yajun praised it highly, "Very insightful! We must have a drink to this, in honor of your unique insights and wisdom."
Gu Mingyue raised her glass quickly, then lowered it deliberately before saying, "I am just repeating what others have said, it's nothing. Then I also wish you a new start and a new beginning."
"Haha, cheers!"